Valentines in the wild

Valentines means it’s fruity bird season! 

I love this time of year because the light is starting to change, the days are getting longer and the birds are singing as their thoughts turn to choosing mates and building nests. 

Two Robins on a tree against a blue sky

Valentines Day in the wild isn't chocolates and roses though. 

It's jolly hard work!

Female Robins demand to be fed by their suitor, female hares box their suitors to check their strength, Great Crested Grebes go dancing and the poor little male Wren builds up to a dozen different nests in the hope that the female will be impressed enough with one that they move in. 

But it’s not all in the favour of the female of the species as illustrated by the the lady toad who schleps her way to the spawning ground with a male gripping on for dear life on her back.

Flowers from the supermarket just don’t cut it in the natural world.

Male toad on a female toad's back

In fact, Valentines Day and its connection with fertility and courtship came about because in medieval times they believed that the middle of February - the 14th, marked the actual start of the mating season for birds.

 

Couple Goals

Gannets. I’ve spent many an hour watching Gannet pairs bonding on the cliffs at Bempton. For such large ungainly birds with piercing sharp beaks they’re so tender and loving towards each other.

A pair of Gannets reaffirming their bond on the cliffs with the sea in the background

Swans are another favourite – their mirrored head bobbing is so wonderful to watch.

And do you know who else? Pigeons. Yes, Pigeons. Just like the Gannets they are incredibly tender with each other.

A pair of pigeons, one is nuzzling the other

The Greatest Love of All?

According to the song made famous by Whitney, it's all about learning to love yourself. 

I think it’s good to mention that sexuality in the natural world isn’t just confined to male and female reproduction. There are many complex relationships that give pleasure, bonding, friendship and a societal acceptance in the wild world we’re all part of.

So whether you're all loved up in a partnership, have loved and lost or simply chose the peaceful single life, may you continue to be blessed with a love of nature, which personally I think IS the greatest love of all. But then I'm biased.

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